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Especially the type I call monotone ones drain indeed, very fast …

We go over to fireplace when we get cold, intense heat of fireplace makes us very happy at the beginning then in a while we feel the need to become distant than after a little while we get away more as the heat discomfort us.

First pleasure had been vanished.

Another example,

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Universe, our galaxy, our world and hapiness

Note: 3 articles which complement each other visual’s backgrounds are black due to Özgecan Aslan and her family.

I need to recommend you to read my previous 2 articles which are having the similar titles first to be able to better understand this article.

Our scientist estimate our world age is about 4,5 – 5 billion years.

They again estimate we Homo Sapiens started to act like modern human beings about 50,000 years ago. So, we can say that our generation is aproximatel only 50,000 years old.

If we make a simile for easier understanding and if we consider our world’s age as a human being average life time 75 –  80 years than Homo Sapiens ( us ) age is like a baby born a few hours ago compared to our world’s age.  So, we are very young compared to our world’s age.

As a result ;

I just wanted to make you to thing about the grandness of  the universe, plurality of galaxies in universe, tremendous distances between them, time, light years and light speed senses.

I believe all these greatnesses whisper something to us and want us to hear that; we have been existing and vanishing in a massive scheme and harmony for quadrillion of light years. We embrace you, have been constantly interacting with all of you and provided you various instruments for you to have an access to more happiness. Look in to the dynamics in my eternity and feel them just beside you like the love, passion, freedom, goodness, kindness, justice, fairness, honourable benefits, sharing with others and finally become aware of your conscience which is always against to your negative thoughts and actions and continuously fighting with them to weaken and replace them with the positive ones each of every second.

‘’Aware of them  ‘’ it says repeatedly, ‘’ be more aware … ‘’

1 is a very important number, it is magical and also a starting number. Whereby there can not come after anything without 1.

So, let’s start and try not to tell even 1 lies 1 full day, share our 1 full day income with those in need, fight with only 1 negative though comes in to your mind and replace it with 1 positive thought the same day, talk no ones behind in the same day, thank to 1 person and finally apologize from 1 person sincerely while thinking this mission the same day. (  When you decide to proceed as requested above than your conscience will tell you who to thank and from whom to apologize, believe me it will, you can do it easily and a little courage will be enough at the beginning only … )

You can add others to or reduce from above 1s or you can choose only one of them or you can decide another ones which you prefer other than mines and if you decide to proceed with your new ones then please ask your conscience about it, it will guide you the correct way for sure. You may not accomplish at the beginning but please do not give up, keep trying and be sure that the good inside you will sense this 1, guide you to be successful than ask for 2,3,4,5….. when the right and appropriate times come with new missions. This is an incredible and entertaining journey. You will be successful and unsuccessful time to time and each success may bring your life a positive energies, than you may like this game and than it may mean more and more happiness in your life.

Yes, it may not be a justice in one life time, according to my opinion it does not, we also do not now what happens after our life, there might be an equalization after or it might not be, we do not know for sure but the one live seems real. So, I believe that  there are times in our life when we can be happy many times and it might be up to our attitudes and actions whether we have more or less happy times in our life.

Try, what would you loose ? Nothing… and share the outcome with me if you kindly spare some time.

Thanks for reading and I am sorry if my words did not carry anything positive to your life.

Hope to see you soon again wishing you all the best.

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Universe, galaxy, our world …

Scientists state that the nearest star system to our Sun is about 4,35 light-years away from us and the nearest star name in this star system is called Proxsima Centauri.

Interstellar distances are explained with the speed of light. One light year is equal to the distance with light speed in one year. But we today know that the substances are not able to reach the light speed based on current science resources due to many reasons scientists explain. So we can consider ‘’substances light speed’’ concept only theoretically and need to consider like we will be able to travel with this speed one day in the future.

As an example, it takes 50,000 years to travel to the closest planet Proxsima Centauri with our current most superior technology. I remind you that it is the closest planet to us.

Have you ever wondered, how far is the closest galaxy to us ?

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Universe, our galaxy …

This article and following one might make you feel that I am out of my subjects but it will end up with ‘’Life’’, ‘’ Happiness’’ and/or ‘’ The concept of happiness ‘’ subjects in the third article.

Let’s start…

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Our Life


Although the word “life” is a short word itself, I believe it hides an adventure in it. This is such a word that when we try to understand the meaning of it, we can only be aware of just a small faction of it and the rest is a big mystery.

Note: Although some scientists have been trying to explain the meaning of the origin of life for a long time, our mental sufficiency is not enough to comprehend the whole picture.

Each of us has different ideas and perspectives about life with different happiness expectations. A worthless element for someone can be a vital important element for the other one. For example, if you think that some children are dying because they don’t have access to clean water , then you can probably understand how the meaning of “happiness” changes for every single person. In fact, most of us, of course, are aware of these children but we hardly ever try to reach them to help. We sometimes watch them on television or read about them, feel sorry for them, however, unfortunately we often pretend as if they don’t exist.They are just other upset, confused, hungry and poor children whom we know but we cannot do anything to change their situations.

Now, let’s do something different, travel deeper into our feelings and think.

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A few words on the concept of happiness

Why majority of us are not happy as much as we want ?

First of all we need to understand that there is no absolute and continuous happiness and our happy and unhappy time zones are temporary. In other words no one has ever been continuously happy or unhappy because these facts generally visit our life together or one leaves when another enters.

None of us can escape from sadnesses, troubles, heartaches or tears as these feelings will be constantly entering and leaving our lives time to time. I believe that what we should most consider is what do we do when an happiness is visiting our life. In other words what do we do when happiness is knocking on our doors.

Think about it please; can we all be aware of the visits of happiness ? And how do we value these times ?

For example; Are we really aware of the value of every breath, each morning we are able to weak up, every bite of our meal or the value of the time we spent with the ones we value most.

I don’t think so… So, how are we going to be more aware of what’s going on ?

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A few words on the concept of happiness

How will we be more happy

I believe I was able to explain not to look for permanent happiness from my point of view. And the real issue is why we can not be happy during the time periods when we have reasons for being happy.

At this point we should realize our mistakes then we need to start believing that we are often the cause of negativities happening in our life’s. Blaming others would not bring anything positive to our life’s and our basic life philosophy should be always critical, willing to change and looking for better.

Then we need to apologize from the ones whom we made mistakes in a language they can understand very well. Most importantly we have to know that apologizing does not mean that you are wrong but it refers to that the value given to them is higher than your ego.

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Our inner and outer words

Our own inner world.

I am sure that we all know how our lives changes when we are not happy and we are all aware that we cannot be happy all the time.

You might also think that if we are not be able to eliminate all difficulties from our lives, why are we trying this much? All our afford is to control the negative energies in our souls to let as much happiness as possible into our lives.

Our ego is the captain of the team. ( Please note that I am not talking about “the constructive part of Ego ” in this article, only “the destructive part of ego” is considered here. )

Their main weapons are our weaknesses like our laziness, insincerity, fixed mindedness, ignorance, mendacity, hypocrisy and you can name many others easily and they are perfectly used against us.

They are very clever and also very good strategists. All they want is to give an opposite direction to our positive actions and thoughts.

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Our Family Life

I believe that the most important decision in our life’s is to choose the right spouses for us because firstly they will be one of the main part in our life’s and additionally the most excellent existences, our child/children will be born from this togetherness.

We look for a partner like us. When we are trying to get to know her/him, we usually prefer her/his to have similar thoughts, similar insights and similar expectations with us. You wonder why ? Because we primarily want to stay exactly as we are and we think that if we get together with some one, having different perspectives from us than we will need to spent time to understand her/him and also respect to her/his point of views and than most importantly we will need to change some of our outlook on life.Whereas we think if we get married with someone like us than we will not need to change. So that during premarital period, we explain ourselves and our expectations from life as much as possible , we want him/her to understand us very well and act , think and proceed like us. At this period, we do not intend to listen too much because our concentration is to explain ourselves as much as we can and make her/his act exactly as we want in our future marriage. Thus we think that we can easily benefit from her/him as much as we can. And we also mistakenly dream that we will not have an headache in the future and she/he will be at least mostly acting exactly as we want from her/him.

In case if we are not sincere than ONLY just 2 different things happen.

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Our Bussiness Life

An unhappy business life makes us an unhappy individual and also effects our family life negatively.

No company have perfect workers, administrators and owners. Workers, administrators and owners are always somewhere between black and white. Company souls determine whether employees are closer to white or black. Every step is very important, like employee selections, managing and handling business procedures, their targets, the way companies handle their capital, businesses, suppliers, producers ect.ect. and also the way their board authorize/empower their administrators. I believe a good company owner and an administrator should have some congenital talents associated with their jobs at first. But these talents do not make one a valuable company owner or administrator. They also need to have a good infrastructure, need to be such an experts in their subjects and need to acquire certain experiences which will take time to get them.

During this journey; company owners, administrator and also administrators trainees need to work hard, renew themselves constantly, listen more than talk, investigate, educate themselves, take some risks and learn only the truths from their mistakes. Even if all are done, you need to remember that you might be unsuccessful time to time because we all need some change to be at our side. Most of our sacrifices are to gain more and more power but intend to ignore additional problems which power bring to our life’s. I have met many people who were not able to manage the situations well and suffering under these responsibilities. I am afraid they were also not providing any type of guidelines and benefits to their colleagues. And after years of effort, they thought that they have had the authority and success they were looking for but they were certainly not happy at all. Meanwhile, a significant portion of their life were gone. .

Do you know why ?

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